Dear Quentin,
My 34-year-old son is getting married this summer. We have an on-and-off relationship, which is especially complicated by the fact that he was dependent on us financially throughout his 20s. We are bitter that he is ungrateful for the support we gave him. He is bitter because he thinks we try to control him with money. We are middle-of-the-road economically, if this matters.
Our…
